Hunter Boots Red

❤️Im loving my New Hunter👢Boots👢❤️Red❤️ #hunterboots #hunter #wellingtons #hunterrainboots #rainboots #hb #wellington #hunterwellies #wellies



*Sewing 101*


Fashion is my Passion, and as the Self proclaimed Queen of Fashion and Psychology, I like clothes, shoes, accessories etc. But what better way to be me, than by learning how to sow. For Christmas i asked Santa Claus or (My Husband) for a sowing machine. *Here is my new sewing machine*

photo 1Growing up my mom and grandma would make a potato sack look like a wedding gown in minutes, so i figured it was installed in my DNA, the only problem is that as enthusiastic as i am to sow, i also realized i have no skills, knowledge or understanding about sowing. So of course as any young techie person i went to the source YouTube and i discovered that i could be only several minutes away from being the Puerto-Rican “Edith Head” of sowing. I’m working on my first skirt, pictures soon to come. I did find this girl and she is just awesome, i have watched all of her videos and have learned so much. I wanted to share this post with you and also a video of her amazing sewing skills.

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What i wore on 12/14/13

Tights are just FABULOUS… I purchased these awesome White Patterned Tights at, Yes you guessed it (Kohl’s) My favorite store ever! So i wanted to wear these awesome tights but WHITE is a hard color, here are some great ideas of how other fashionable ladies wore their white tights. Here is how i wore my WHITE awesome tights 🙂    *Dress H& M Store, Tights Apt9, Shoes Target, Belt Rainbow’s*

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What i wore on 11/15/13

Black and white dot blouse and vest thrifted both for ($3.00), Skirt Old Navy, Tights Kohl’s, Shoes JCP. I lovethe hot pink tights great pop of color. It feels nice to walk into a store and buy something without trying most items on. Have a Blessed Day ladies 🙂

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What i wore 10/19/13

I love this Top thrifted Lane Bryant, Skirt with overalls at Dots, Tights Walgreen’s, Leopard Shoes from Shoe-land Orlando Fl. This is such a cute outfit, this top is to big since my weight loss so i had to take it in. I felt pretty good, it’s funny to see myself in this skirt and to see how much longer and looser it fit. Have a Great Day!

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The Psychology of the Color Pink

pink-fashion-27_largeThe Color Pink

The meaning of the color pink is unconditional love and nurturing. The color pink represents compassion, nurturing and love. It relates to unconditional love and understanding, and the giving and receiving of nurturing. A combination of red and white, pink contains the need for action of red, helping it to achieve the potential for success and insight offered by white. It is the passion and power of red softened with the purity, openness and completeness of white. The deeper the pink, the more passion and energy it exhibits. Pink is feminine and romantic, affectionate and intimate, thoughtful and caring. It tones down the physical passion of red replacing it with a gentle loving energy. Pink is intuitive and insightful, showing tenderness and kindness with its empathy and sensitivity. In color psychology, pink is a sign of hope. It is a positive color inspiring warm and comforting feelings, a sense that everything will be okay.


Pink calms and reassures our emotional energies, alleviating feelings of anger, aggression, resentment, abandonment and neglect. Studies have confirmed that exposure to large amounts of pink can have a calming effect on the nerves and create physical weakness in people. Violent and aggressive prisoners have been successfully calmed by placing them in a pink room for a specified amount of time. Exposure for too long can have the opposite effect. The color pink puts people in touch with the nurturing side of themselves, through either the need to receive or the need to give, nurturing and TLC (tender loving care!). Be aware of this if you have a friend who constantly wears pink as it may indicate a need for acceptance, support and unconditional love!   Pink is a non-threatening color seeking appreciation, respect and admiration. It doesn’t like to be taken for granted and just loves to hear the words ‘thank you’. Pink can signify good health, being ‘in the pink’, and success as in ‘everything’s rosy’.pink-fashion-31

The color pink represents the sweetness and innocence of the child in all of us. It is the color of uncomplicated emotions, inexperience and naiveté. A constant and exclusive use of pink can often lead you to become immature, silly and girlish, abandoning your adult responsibilities. Pink can also remind you of earlier childhood memories, associated with nurturing and comfort from your mother or a mother figure. Pink, from a negative color meaning, can represent a lack of will power, a lack of self-reliance and a lack of self-worth. It can indicate an overly emotional and overly cautious nature. Combining pink with other darker colors such as dark blue, dark green, black or gray, adds strength and sophistication to pink.


The Color Pink Represents:

Unconditional love: Pink relates to both unconditional love and romantic love. Compassion: Empathy and understanding are the fuel for pink’s nurturing. Nurturing: Pink is both the giving and the receiving of love, understanding and respect. Hope: Pink inspires the possibility of a positive outcome.Sanrio_Hello_Kitty_Plush_Blanket_Pink_1Effects of the Color Pink:

Calming: Pink calms our emotional energies. Non-threatening: Pink lacks any aggression or anger, although the deeper pinks can be more assertive and confident. Affectionate: Pink offers warmth and tenderness to friends and family. Caring: Sensitivity and tender loving care relate to pink’s feminine and intuitive energies. Immature: Pink is the color of the sweet young girl, before life’s experiences take

Marc Anthony @ Kohl’s

My husband loves, loves, loves fashion. And when i told him about this new line he was very excited. Here are some of the great pieces you will find @ Kohl’s 🙂



My Son Preston, Future Model…

My son Preston is 22 months, he is not much for words, but he has a great sense of style.. I love it.. He put on my hat then said mami, as he grabbed my cell phone, so that i can take a picture and then asked to see himself and smiled.. My older son Hamilton is sitting in the background, he is 6 yrs old.


My Homage to “Budgetnista”

I Love Fashion, hence the But one of my Favorite sites has to be I love her sense of style, she is very eclectic. She is thrifty and Fabulous. So I dedicate this Blog to her. You are a Beautiful Woman out and in. May God Bless you, your son and your daily life.  Here are some of my Favorite pictures of her..

Chunky and Fabulous

So i received this e-mail. It said “Dear Zulema, You have a great sense of style for a fat girl. Nothing personal, until I saw your blog, I had never realised that obese women, had any kind of fashion sense or style, so thank you for this website”. 

As i finished reading this paticular e-mail. I was not sure if i should be happy, sad,  offended or what. I mostly laughed and thought since when was I fat or obese? I suppose to todays standards of society i am not a Kate Moss or a Gisele Bundchen. But then again would i want to look like that? So i went to the best source my mom a 60 year old–  5’5,  135 pound woman, she laughed and as always threw incredible knowledge my way. She said beauty comes in evrey shape, size and color. Does the whale look at the dolphin and thinkwhy cant i be smaller? Does the Red Robbin look at the Eagle and think your wings are nicer and bigger? Zulema she said their has to be a balance in nature. And you are beautiful becuase you are a part of us. You have the best features of your dad and I. And i m a beautiful woman..(LOL)..

I thanked her, and thought Chunky and Fabulous, I am not a size 0. But I am very happy withmy 12-14 shape. I can do anything anybody else can do. So yes we Chunky women, or girls or teen agers. Have a sense of style and fashion. We to like tofeel beautifulith shoes, purses, dresses and much more. When I look in the morror I see a mother, a friend, a girlfriend, a companion, a social worker, a fierce, strong, powerful, smart, educated, funny, serious, wonderful woman, with her own sense of style and fashion…

To all the Chunky Women and Men out their I say, get up and Strut your stuff!!!

What I Wore today 5-4-10

Dress Merona-Target, Boots Dots, Scarf Kmart, Watch Bugle Boy. I love grey sand i adore these boots so i figured wear these for the last time since spring and summer are here… This is my I love winter but excited for Spring look…LOL..

New Apartment..

So I just moved into my new apartment. As you ldies and gents know i am going through a divorce. It’s not as difficult as i thought. To be honest i am happy I am finally free..LOL.. After 10 years of marriage. It feels great to have my own space, my own things with my tastes.. So here is a picture of my Living Room. Its simple but i like it. I will take more of the rest of my new spot.. Tell me what you think, or if u have ideas..

I got the Red Chairs from Ikea, and the Center Tables, The Sofais from Bob’s Furniture. I was having a Young Adult Ministries Dinner, so thats why u see the snacks..

Harajuku Lovers Pumps

So one of my wonderful bloggers posted a question???

Veronica Says:

September 22, 2009 at 6:51 pm e

I adore Carrie’s 1st outfit! The western shirt with jeans and high heels?! How more stylish can she look?! Flawless! I cannot wait for the movie to come out. Question. I love the style of shoe she is wearing on the 1st pic, if I am not mistaken, Kim Kardashian also loves these shoes…unfortunately, never in my life have a been able to wear slip on shoes do you know if there are any shoes similar to that style with a strap? I will greatly appreciate any feedback. Thank you!

So I found this wonderful Designer Harajuku Lovers Shoes… Here are some that come pretty close to the big heel, platform style but with straps..  Hope this helps!!!

Salvador Dali

Salvador Dali… Is one of my favorites in the World… Except of course Georgia Okeefe…  This is one of my favorites of Dalis collection and I thought pairing it up with something young and stylish would be perfect…. So tell me what do you think??? Who is your favorite artist???

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What I wore today 7-28-09

Total 80’s Flashback… I just love this t-shirt, it was so cute and bright, I wore it to work,, and it was a definite conversation starter… Let’s just say a lot of us remember the Like a Virgin Years..LOL…

Shirt Rainbow’s Store

Skirt New York and Company

Shoes Cinderella Boutique

Watch Avon

Hair Piece Can’t remember…

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ELLE Pointelle Cardigan in Grey

I just got the cutest sweater at Kohl’s, it’s Grey ELLE Pointelle Cardigan and I am so excited, I hope colder days get here soon, so that I can wear this fabulous top!!!

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ELLE Pointelle Cardigan

Very excited I can wear a Black dress underneath, a jean skirt white top, dark grey dress etc.. It’s very versatile, so how would you wear this Fabulous Top??? Any suggestions?? Well let me know!!!

Ralph Lauren 2009 Fall Fashion Runway

Out of all the seasons Fall and Winter are my favorite, I find myself accessorizing more with scarfs, hats, boots, sweater, vests, jackets etc. Summer and Spring are okay. But my wardrobe scream Falllll…..Here are some of my favorite outfits for the 2009 Fall Fashion line up, for Ralph Lauren. They look so beautiful, great colors!!!